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dear aqueel,( cc to all) 

hi, further to y mail, I completely agree that i am at fault for my irresponsible act and behavior for all the 3 times the tickets were scheduled.I am extremely sorry and thoroughly apologize for the same. 

i had lot of serious issues at home which prevented my going each time i tried to take a flight . I was very much under family pressure to delay by joining by a month due to health issues of my wife 

( as explained below) - but at the same time i was under pressure to join asap from yr side and and was not in proper frame of mind to decide .

1st time ---dt ___

i boarded the flight and i had to return from muscat as my wife and grand mother met with an accident on the way back after dropping me at the airport, therefore had to get back asap, thinking that i will join once things got ok

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2nd time ---dt __: 

this time , my wife who was pregnant had to be aborted due to complications which arose out of the earlier accident. This time too the recovery process was delayed and had to cancel the flight 

again. there were severe tensions at home (specially from my inlaws) and was forced to stay back till she had completely recovered

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3rd time:---dt___:

I was all set and packed my bags nd ready for next day. But this time, I agree that it was sheer irresponsible act from my end and i am ashamed to say that as i had consumed some pills ( as per 

doctors advice) due to my ill health the previous day, which had the tranquilizing effect ( which i was not aware) and just could not get up the next morning. I was too embarrassed and did not know 

how to answer the Co. who had co-operated with me all the time.

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I also accept my inability and lack of timely communication at my end as i was totally shattered and did not know how to react or respond to the Co, as i had quit my earlier job, spent tons of money for treatments and could not join the Co each time I tried to go. I know this has destroyed my image of a responsible and experienced candidate and i want to make good all the losses which the co may have suffered out of my previous acts. 

I sincere apologize for issues at my end and I request you for one LAST change for me to join as things are now fine and sorted out at my end and i am without any job and need to take 

this job asap .

 This time i shall bear my own ticket costs and will also bear the costs to the co which they have incurred due to my previous cancellations.

Further, I know it will difficult for the co to trust me again, therefore I am willing to sign any bond and give any kind of surety which the co thinks fit to allow me to join. I also assure that all my issues at home are sorted out and I shall thoroughly fullfil the contract as per the offer. 

i once again apologize for the delay and lack of timely communication , which I assure you will not happen again, and request you to give me one last change and oblige

thanks

henry